An article titled “Get Rewards for Reading
Books” was posted this 2009 at the Evening Post, Nottinghamshire. Briefly, the
writer wrote that “Children are being challenged to read six books over the
summer holidays - collecting stickers and rewards as they go”. Another article
was published in Sentinel; it was about the similar thing which is using a star
chart as a way to encourage good behavior. The article clearly stated that the
star chart is a popular way that parents chose to make their child obey them. By
those two articles above, it is obvious that the reward system has become a
powerful way to make children perform. But, is it true? Do children will really
do well if adults give them rewards? Unfortunately, the answer will be no.
Rewards, in this case the external ones, will eventually turn off children
internal motivation and at the end it will not make children perform better.
When adults, in this case teachers or parents,
give reward to children, they actually want to motivate the children. Adults
understand that motivation is an important part of human living. In their
entire life, from baby to senior, people will do something because they have
motivation. So does a child. Adults see that children did not perform well
because they do not have enough motivation. The lack of motivation makes them
not studying, not doing their homework, not getting good grades, not wanting to
read, and so on, you named it. Therefore, adults want to help them by giving them
the motivation they need. Rewards, such as stickers, trophy, stars, points,
even money, seem to be the good solution. The rewards can be children
motivation. That is why parents and teachers love it. They use rewards to
motivate children. If a child does something ‘good’, he/she will get the
sticker. Then, he/she can collect the stickers and exchange it with something
that he/she wants. Children will be motivated and want to get more stickers so
that they can have things they want. It is a win-win solution, isn’t it? Sounds
good and effective, right? Nothing seems wrong with it. Eventually, that is only
happened on the beginning. If parents and teachers giving the stickers continually,
the side effect will starts to occur. Just like what I have experienced few
years ago when I was teaching my kindergarten students. After the story time I
started to ask questions to them as I want know whether or not they grasp the message
of the story and one of them, instead of answering my question, was saying this
to me, “Will we get sticker if we answer the question?” Wow! That question just
went straight to my mind and it made me think further. What have I done so that
this child asked that question? Will he answer the question or participate in
the class learning if he hadn’t been promised to get the sticker? Did I just
create a ‘sticker demanding’ child? Thus, make me rethink about the method I
used to make my students participate and learn in the class.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with the
rewards. Everyone needs it. It is always be a part of basic human need, as
Maslow put the “respect of others” and “respect by others” in the fourth place
in his pyramid of hierarchy of human’s needs. But then, a further question
occurs. Do the rewards really motivate the children? Parents or teachers might
say yes since they see their children or students showed an “improvement” in
their school performance. Students are competing each other to earn more stars,
more stickers, more rewards. People will say that these children are being
motivated. But do they? What will happen if this “motivation” being taken from
their life? Will these children still perform if there are no rewards given or
promised to them? If that so, does it mean that adults will always need to give
rewards to make them perform?
Motivation itself came into two types, internal
and external. Internal motivation is a motivation that come from inside, as the
name “intern” explain the meaning itself. On the contrary, external motivation
come from outside. It is a motivation that been given by another people.
Between those two motivations, which one is better? The answer must be internal
motivation. Something that come from inside always is the best thing. To make
the connection, rewards is an external motivation; it is given by parents or
teachers to children. Therefore, the reward is not as good as the internal
motivation.
Then, does it mean that parents and teacher
should stop giving any rewards? Definitely no! External rewards still have their
benefit. It just needs to be controlled and limited. Why? Because if people use
it as the first way and the only way to make children perform, it will slowly
diminish the joy of learning that children get in the process of learning. Bryner
confirms that “When kids are encouraged to work for grades, they become less
interested in the learning itself...the more they’re focused on getting an A or
a sticker, the more they come to see the learning itself as a tedious prerequisite
to that goody” (Bryner 19). Moreover, in 1999, Deci, Koestner, and Ryan did a meta-analysis which concludes that “expected
tangible rewards, such as pay, awards, and prizes, decrease [internal]
motivation” (Eisenberger, Pierce, and Cameron 677). Therefore, people need to
be aware by the effect of an external reward since it might “undermined
motivation” (Landen and Willem 283). A lot of consideration needs to be made
before someone decides to use an external reward to make children motivated.
Thus, the using of external rewards need to be controlled and be stopped before
it takes away the internal motivation (Landen and Willem 284). Parents and
teacher should always think twice before they give any external rewards to
children.
Actually, to make children learning, external rewards
are not necessary. Children have always and will always be someone who has a
curiosity and willing to learn. They like to explore. They enjoy learning new
thing. It is adult who took the excitement of learning by alter it with the
rewards. It is adult who takes away the internal motivation and replace it with
the external motivation. It is adult who don’t understand what these children
are really needs. Children will prefer to have a strong relation and bond with
their surrounding than getting the prize (Wilson 53). Adults can help children
to build their internal motivation, or actually strengthen it since they
already have the internal motivation from the beginning, by giving the support
that they need. Rather than giving prizes, parents should dedicate more quality
time with their children, or giving encouragement children need by giving
feedback such as a simple praise. Furthermore, children need to be given a
chance or opportunity to make them being heard; it is very powerful. If it’s
not because of his teacher giving him a chance to read his composition in front
of the class and praise him, Rusell Baker will not have the motivation he need
to pursue his dream in becoming a writer. He surely feels very motivated and
pleased as he writes that “what I was feeling was pure ecstasy at this startling
demonstration” (Baker 202). Baker’s teacher did not promise him a good grade or
an extra point to make him motivated. His teacher gave him a chance, the chance
to be in front of the class, reading his writing, and being acknowledged. Thus,
it makes the chance and praise becoming an important part of nourishing
internal motivation. If that praise works on a third year student, it will
definitely works on children.
Lots have been said and the decision is totally
in the individual parents and teachers’ hand. Whether or not they decide to use
the rewards to “motivate” children, the consequence is clearly appear. If
adults still use an external reward as the primary way to make children learn,
they are creating the reward demanding children, which is absolutely not the
kind of children that actually they want to have. Internal motivation is always
be the best solution. Something that is come from inside will always has more
power than something that come from outside. Therefore, internal motivation
cannot be replaced by any stickers, stars or other forms of external reward.
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